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2011年8月1日星期一

Does this girl that was in my math class like me?

-This girl i met in math class would kick my chair for no reason at the beginning of the school year. Then couple weeks after she gave me her number. At that moment i didn't really care for this person. so later in the school she would make me study with her for her tests during my math period after we were done with work. She always said hi to me every morning when i passed her in the hallway by her locker and not only that it alway seem like she was happy to see me. So I ask her out in January something and she didn't answer for a couple minutes until i ask her it wouldn't affect our friendship would it? she said no. last part of the year i was being rude at times toward her without even knowing because i had my music in most of the time. So i ask my friend if it affected her at all. he said she didn't care 2 much. So do you guys think she like me??she likes you of course, just try to pay attention to her more, girls feel down if maybe there being treated not the way they want to be. just out yourself in her shoes, how would you feel?
I think she liked you but before you asked her out you didn't like her so she probably got that vibe and tried or did move on.
Sounds like she did have a bit of a crush there but then wasn't sure what to do when you actually caught on and asked her out. I guess she never actually thought the tormenting would work. If she's stopped doing those things, she might just be shy or suddenly self-conscious about it because you know she likes you now. If she starts it up again, you'll immediately know why and you might try to ask her out again. This is why girls are frustrating; even if she DOES like you, but hesitates and gets all awkward if you start responding to her advances (even though logic would dictate that that is exactly what she's trying to get you to do).



Many girls are mild sadists, and we rather enjoy confusing/tormenting the object of our affections. Mostly because we can. But once the cat's out of the bag and you're wise to our motives, it's suddenly not fun anymore, because as soon as we start the game up again you immediately know what's up and put us on the spot again. We can't handle the potential of being rejected; we'd rather go on pining for you than actually approach you in a serious way and seek a relationship, out of the fear that you'll say no. Pining means there's still a chance; coming right out with it makes the whole thing uncomfortably real.



That said, it might be time to talk to this girl. Face-to-face is ideal, but Facebook or texting will do if you just can't make that happen. If you like her, try asking her out again. Otherwise, ask her what her deal was in math class. If you didn't notice her acting that way toward anyone else, ask her what made you so special. Or you could just straight-up ask her if she likes you and see where things go from there.

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